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hiya

Just FYI, this LJ is mostly friends-only, just now. (Watch, I say that, and I'll start posting in the clear again soon.)

I do add people some. But mostly on my own volition. But feel free to say hi.

Edit, 9/16/11 -- As predicted, I'm now posting mostly in the clear. Well, anyway, hi!
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events of scale and non-scale

1) Calluna's graduating from Lesley's Counseling Psych grad program tomorrow.

I have this difficulty saying I'm proud of people, because somehow it always feels as if I'm somehow taking some kind of credit for what they've done. But I'm not, and I am.

(Since she somehow didn't have a lot of people with her at her Harvard Div School graduation, or, even if she did, mostly just remembers her mother being there, she has invited the whole world (but not her mother) to this one. By which I mean to say, my family (mom, dad, brother & wife) and her family (dad, step-mom, brother, and Cool Cousin. Unfortunately her brother isn't bringing either his much cooler wife, or the niecelings.)

My family has not met her family before. This graduation is happening at 9am. I am going to be a tad underslept, and also just a wee bit tense.

But. Also. Proud and pleased.


A long and somewhat pointless tale of getting stood up, and getting someone in mild troubleCollapse )

3) I got my new glasses. Woo hoo! The main obvious difference in the prescription strength is that colors are more vivid. The progressive part is fine -- stairs are great, no problems reading, no lines or what have you. It's just that if I turn my head too quickly, it takes my peripheral vision a bit of time to readjust, so I feel as if I'm doing one of those slo-mo special effect things where one part of the image moves, and then the rest of it snaps into normal speed to follow.

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I wish I had had a notebook

Went and got my eyes examined, finally. For the first time in, oh, over a decade.

I didn't take notes and therefore am losing details, as per usual, but my astigmatism has changed some, and my right eye (always the worse one) has gotten even worse than it was. I /think/ the optometrist said my left eye got slightly better, which seems odd, but I suppose it's had to work harder. She recommended progressives (bifocals for the modern age), so I'm getting them via their glasses store, and then will get a pair each of reading and distance glasses from Zenni, later. It will be v. nice (in 5-7 days) to have actual useful glasses.

She also asked casually after my general health, in a conversational way, and we got into a discusssion of blood pressure and whether having a blood pressure monitor was a thing or not, which I was both irritated and amused about, and settled more on the side of amused once she took my "Yes, my doctor and I are working on it long-term" in good stride.

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recent things

I managed, on Thursday, to get my blood drawn, have a shot, get sushi, and then get marooned in the Rotaries of Doom in Cambridge, pretty much *at* rush hour, in a way guaranteed to make me miss the Black Lives Matter vigil.

Sigh.

The day was remarkably gorgeous, though, and had been filled with people smiling at me and me smiling at them, and people doing mildly nice things for me and me for them, so I shrugged philosophically, stopped at Whole Foods, did a little shopping, ditto Trader Joe's, and then encountered some goslings and their parents in the parking lot of a medical building. They wandered around, their parents hissed at me, I gave them some nuts and a little bread, they progressed to hissing at me but mostly ignoring me, and eventually the goslings said "We're tired," and poked their mother in such a way that she almost immediately sat down and they crowded in under her wings and fell asleep, at which point I left. (I imagine there's a specific ingrained cue, there.)

Slightly blurry and unedited gosling picture:

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Saturday I cleaned a bunch.

Sunday, my church managed to surprise our minister, on the event of her 10th anniversary in ministry with us, with a luncheon and general festivities. She had prepared a normal sermon, and had been disappointed to learn her dad would be off somewhere else at another commitment, so she couldn't tell him about it over the phone as she apparently frequently does. So then he and her sister showed up, along with various other dignitaries, and she was banjaxed. (And we made her cry (in the good way) at the luncheon. Ha.)

Mind you, the sermon was in part about, basically, communicating with people with whom you have philosophical differences, and she used her father and sister as examples of that, and it struck me she might have written it differently had she known they were coming, but it seems to have worked out OK.

Must finish some financial aid stuff. Fret.

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Boston to Skowhegan

I was kind of dubious about traveloguing, but then I realized that I totally don't remember something that happened on the trip in 2002, which was evidently quite fun, and which I never got around to writing in-depth about, but which I did post briefly about on LJ, and which brought a flood of "oh, yeah..." memory back, thus proving why travelogues and/or trip write-ups are useful things.

Day 1: Boston to Skowhegan, involving sunlight, New Hampshire, detours, and many river valleysCollapse )

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thud

Just spent five days driving around (and doing some walking, too!) in Maine (and a bit of New Hampshire). Got home last night and went thud. Would have spent longer, but I have a minor medical thing today.

Miles Driven: 1520. Maine is large. (By comparison, my big trip around the US was 11,700 or so, but I was frequently going on smaller roads this time.) From Boston to San Diego is about twice what I just drove. Maine is big, did I mention?)

Places I Went I’ve Vaguely Wanted To Go To For Eons: Baxter State Park (because Katahdin! End of the Appalachian Trail! Katahdin’s knife edge!), Quoddy Head and Lubec (easternmost points in the US!), Fort Kent (end of Route 1), Caribou, Allagash, Millinocket, Farmington (this is technically quite boring, but a friend used to live there), Skowhegan, Athens (as a representative of the zillions of places in Maine named after somewhere else)*, Machias/Machias Port, and Boothbay/Boothbay Harbor.

(Maine’s one of the places I hung out in a lot, growing up, so I have a lot of places I’ve vaguely heard about and wanted to go.)

Animals Seen: several moose, a herd of alpacas, one llama, the requisite farm animals (plus some miniature horses and, separately, some ponies), a woodchuck, possibly a beaver and definitely its dam, various cats and dogs, hawks a-plenty, a loon, woodpeckers, various ducks and geese, a bunch of ravens (and crows), a plethora of other unidentified birds, an eft, various other salamandery and tadpoley things, a lot of bear scat but no bears, a pheasant, a porcupine galumphing away in the opposite direction, and possibly a fisher. I did not see any turkeys, which is ironic since it’s turkey hunting season. I suspect they’re all in hiding. I also saw no deer, either dead or alive.

Places That Were Closed: Practically the entirety of tourist Maine. (Most tourist attractions don’t open til nearer Memorial Day.) Since I knew this to begin with, it mostly didn’t bother me, and anyway, sometimes I went anyway. For example, the actual fort at Fort Kent was technically closed, but I wandered around outside. I couldn’t go inside, but it’s small, and it has a lot of tourist information outside it. This is true of Quoddy Head, too. (Things like York Wild Animal Kingdom, OTOH, I just didn’t go to. Alas.)

Also, and this did bug me briefly when I got there, technically, Baxter State Park is (or was) currently closed due to snow, though I wandered around in it for a few hours anyway. I didn’t want to hike extensively because there weren’t any rangers, and I hadn’t told anyone specifically the days I’d been pondering going, since I hadn’t actually expected to go. So, since I didn’t want to, as just one example of something that could go wrong, break a leg and not be found for A Long Period Of Time, I didn’t hang out very long.

Places I Wanted To Go, But Didn’t, Aside From Closed Tourist Traps: The northernmost point in the continental US, since I am the kind of nerd who likes that kind of thing. Thing is, that very large section of Maine is owned by the logging companies; they allow people (most especially outdoorsy types) in, but you have to go through checkpoints and defer to logging trucks, and the way they phrased it made me not want to get anywhere near them. So I didn’t. (Google maps keeps insisting these roads don’t exist. They do. They’re just private.)

Also, Canada, since I lack a passport. (Yes, the entirety of it, but most especially New Brunswick.) The thing there is that, of course, Francophone Maine, of which there is more than you would expect, is intimately tied to Canada, so you can’t really understand Maine without understanding Canada (and you can’t understand that area of Canada and Maine without understanding the Acadians), but basically, I learned a lot in the gaps and holes.

Also, I didn’t get to go to Campobello Island. (Former home of Roosevelts. I am an amatuer historian and an Eleanor Roosevelt partisan.) I shall take my mother someday.

Number Of Times I Locked My Keys In My Car: None! Hosannah. I did, however, leave my suitcase behind in Lubec. (Luckily, I remembered it about 10 minutes down the road.)

I may or may not do a travelogue. They’re kinda boring to other people. On the other hand, this is my own durn blog. We’ll see.

*Places In Maine Named After Somewhere Else, An Incomplete List: Carthage, Norway, Sweden, Peru, Moscow, Medford, Milton, Hebron, Berlin, Madrid (now unincorporated), Athens, Rome, Mt. Vernon, Naples, Poland, AND SO ON. There is a sign that exemplifies this phenomenon. (Which I did not go to, because I was too busy going to a town with a bookstore, instead. Priorities!)

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